生活中最快乐的事情是什么_风闻

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Sathishkumar Thangavel

What made you smile today?

I am working as a software engineer in Bangalore.Today morning,I boarded a bus to go to my office. It was very crowded.The bus fare was 19 rupees.I gave 20 rupees to a bus conductor and asked for a ticket.He gave me the ticket to my office (for 19 rupees). He did not give me the remaining one rupee.

I asked him to give the one rupee.He told that he was not having 1 rupee change and he would give it to me when I am getting down.

3 other passengers were also travelling to my office.They also gave 20 rupees for a ticket and the conductor did not pay the remaining 1 rupee to each of them.I was observing this.

Usually, when the bus reaches my office,nearly around 30 or 40 passengers (all are IT employees) will get down and conductor can/will not give the change at that bus stop. He will keep that with himself (as a commission!!).That is why he was not intentionally giving us the remaining change at the time of giving a ticket even though he had change.

今天是什么让你微笑？

我在班加罗尔做软件工程师。今天早上，我上了一辆公共汽车去上班。那里非常拥挤。公共汽车票价是19卢比。我给公共汽车售票员20卢比，并要求买票。他给了我车票（19卢比），不过他没有给我找零。

我让他给我一卢比。他告诉我，他现在没有1卢比的零钱，我下车时他会给我。

另外3名乘客也是前往我的办公室那个区域。他们也给了20卢比的票款，而售票员没有向他们每人支付剩余的1卢比。我正在观察这一情况。

通常，当公交车到达我的办公室地点时，大约有30或40名乘客（都是IT行业员工）会下车，售票员可以/不会在那个公交车站给零钱。他会自己留着（作为佣金！）。这就是为什么他在出票时没有故意给我们剩下的零钱，即使他有零钱也不给的原因。

Now let’s come to the story.The bus was approaching my office.I asked a change of one rupee from the conductor. He said, ” I do not have the change”.The bus had reached my office.

Then an old lady boarded the bus.While seeing her, I understood that she would be poor and helpless. So, what I did was I yelled in the bus, “Hi all, how many of you need the 1 rupee change from the conductor? Please raise your hands”. Approximately 20 hands were raised.

So I asked them, “Friends, are you ready to give your one rupee to this Grandma for her bus ticket?”

Everybody said. “Yes”.So,I asked the conductor to give her a ticket with that 20 rupees.He stared at me and then gave the ticket to that Granny.

Everybody started smiling(except the conductor).The smile from that Granny made me to smile with pride and happiness!!

现在让我们来谈谈这个故事。公共汽车快到我的办公室地点了。我向售票员要一卢比的零钱。他说：“我没有零钱”。公共汽车已经到了我的办公室区域。

然后，一位老太太登上了公交车。当我看到她时，我明白她会很穷，很无助。所以，我所做的就是在公交车上大喊：“嗨，你们中有多少人需要售票员1卢比的零钱？请举手”。大约有20人举手。

所以我问他们：“朋友们，你准备好把你的一卢比给这位奶奶吗？”

大家都说。“可以”。所以，我让售票员给她一张20卢比的票。他盯着我，然后把票给了那个奶奶。

每个人都开始微笑了（除了售票员）。奶奶的微笑让我感到骄傲和快乐！！

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Mala Kai

For me it would be having friends or a boyfriend that i love, that care for me, worry for me, gives me huggies when i need them, accepts me and doesnt judge me and id do the same for them.

Never wanted anything more than that really.

对我来说，就是有一个我爱的朋友或男朋友，他们关心我，担心我，在我需要的时候给我关心，接受我，不评判我，我也会为他们做同样的事情。

除此之外别无所求。

Dushka Zapata

What is one thing that is necessary to be happy?

To me it’s the absence of a pursuit.

If you are always chasing something it is never with you. Whatever you chase will always be moving away.

Happiness cannot be when you find love or get the job or quit the job or get the apartment or resolve your inner turmoil.

It absolutely has to be found in the right now- the imperfect, unsettled, painful now.

快乐所必需的一件事是什么?

对我来说，就是没有追求。

如果你总是在追求某件事，那它永远不会伴随你。无论你追逐的是什么，它总会离开你。

幸福不可能是当你找到真爱、找到工作、辞职、找到公寓或解决了内心的烦恼就会来到的。

它绝对必须在当下找到——不完美、不稳定、痛苦的当下。

Charissa Enget

What brings you happiness in your day to day life?

This is my dad.

Obviously, he’s not my birth dad.

But, as soon as I got to Thailand, he let me know he was my new Thai father. He even told my parents when they visited “When Charissa is in America, she is your daughter. But in Thailand, she is my daughter. I will always take care of her.”

When I first arrived, I was helpless, lonely, and unable to speak the language. Dr. Jao did everything he could to make me comfortable and adjusted. He made his students hang out with me so I wouldn’t be alone. He made his other students take me to breakfast, lunch, and dinner to help me order food. He got a phone plan for me. He made me text him whenever I traveled anywhere just so he would know I was safe. He got a motorcycle for me to borrow when I said I wanted my own transportation. The other grad students called me “Dr. Jao’s princess".

是什么给你的日常生活带来快乐？

我爸爸，显然，他不是我的生父。

但是，我一到泰国，他就让我知道他是我在泰国的新父亲。他甚至在我父母来访时告诉他们：“当查丽莎在美国时，她是你的女儿。但在泰国，她是我的女儿。我会一直照顾她。”

当我第一次来的时候，我很无助，很孤独，也不会说这种语言。Jao博士竭尽全力让我感到舒适和适应。他让他的学生和我在一起，这样我就不会孤单了。他让其他学生带我去吃早餐、午餐和晚餐，帮我点菜。他给我准备了一个电话计划。每当我去任何地方旅行时，他都会让我给他发短信，让他知道我很安全。当我说我需要自己的交通工具时，他给我借了一辆摩托车。其他研究生称我为“Jao博士的公主”。

I truly could not have survived here without him.

Every day, Dr. Jao takes me and his other grad student to lunch. He pays for our meals and talks with us until we are finished eating.

Afterwards, he takes us to a coffee shop. He always orders a hot cocoa. I always thought of hot cocoa as a winter treat, but my Thai dad loves to drink hot cocoa every day, it’s a true joy in his life.

Dr. Jao sits and talks with us for an hour or more. Sometimes he tells me about his childhood. Other times he wants to talk about my travels. Some days he just wants to laugh and joke. He also likes to make me practice speaking Thai.

It’s my absolute favorite part of every day, it brings me so much joy.

When I think about leaving Thailand after I graduate, drinking hot cocoa with my Thai dad is truly what I’ll miss the most.

没有他，我真的无法在这里生存。

每天，Jao博士都会带我和他的另一个研究生去吃午饭。他为我们支付餐费，并与我们交谈，直到我们吃完为止。

然后，他带我们去了一家咖啡店。他总是点热可可。我一直认为热可可是冬天的一种享受，但我的泰国爸爸每天都喜欢喝热可可，这是他生活中真正的快乐之事。

Jao博士坐着和我们交谈了一个多小时。有时他会告诉我他的童年。其他时候他想谈谈我的旅行。有时他只是想笑和开玩笑。他还喜欢让我练习说泰语。

这是我每天最喜欢的部分，它给我带来了很多快乐。

当我想到毕业后离开泰国时，和我的泰国爸爸一起喝热可可确实会是我最怀念的时光。

Skyler Irvine

What is the most difficult thing to learn and accept about life?

People usually aren’t listening. They are either thinking of what they are going to say next, or something else entirely.

Everyone is insecure about something, it’s not just you.

You are going to die no matter what.

Your kids will experience hardship.

The bigger an organization is, the harder it is to make a change even if the need is so obvious.

Some people are bad and have bad intentions.

Many people (not all) will steal $100 from you today even if it means missing the opportunity to earn $1000 from you next week.

You will never be 100% sure about decision ever. But always make a decision because it’s better to go back and fix it than to never make it at all.

There is ALWAYS someone who makes more money than you, is more fit, has a better looking spouse, has an easier life, good things happen to them. Usually more than just one.

How you react to an event, problem, emotion, or anything, is more important than the actual event, problem, emotion or whatever. You cannot control your emotions, you cannot control others, all you can control is how you are going to react. Sometimes it’s easy but usually it’s really really hard.

生活中最难学习和接受的事情是什么？

人们通常不会倾听。他们要么在想下一步要说什么，要么在想完全不同的事情。

每个人都对某件事缺乏安全感，这不仅仅是你。

不管怎样，你都会死的。

你的孩子会经历困难。

一个组织越大，就越难做出改变，即使这种需求是如此明显。

有些人很坏，有不好的意图。

许多人（不是所有人）今天会从你那里偷100美元，即使这意味着错过下周从你那里赚1000美元的机会。

你永远不会100%确定自己的决定。但始终要做出决定，因为与其永远不做决定相比，不如回去解决它。

总有人比你赚更多钱，更健康，有一个更漂亮的配偶，生活更轻松，好事发生在他们身上，而且通常不止一个。

你对事件、问题、情绪或任何事情的反应比实际事件、问题或情绪更重要。你无法控制自己的情绪，你无法控制他人，你所能控制的只是你的反应。有时很容易，但通常真的很难。