人们有权力想穿什么就穿什么吗？_风闻

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Marc Lawrence

We shouldn’t.

To illustrate this, I should be able to wear an expensive gold watch in a shady neighbourhood without getting mugged. I should, but I can’t, so I don’t.

Similarly, women should be able to dress like prostitutes if they want without getting catcalled, molested or raped. But they can’t. So it isn’t sensible to do so.

我们不应该。

举个例子，我可以在阴暗的街区佩戴昂贵的金表，但是我会遭到抢劫。我有权力这么干，但我不能，所以我不会这么干。

同样，如果女性愿意，她们应该能够打扮得像妓女一样，而不会受到辱骂、猥亵或强奸。但他们做不到，所以这样做是不明智的。

Also, you might want to wear your pyjamas to a job interview. Do that, and watch your chances of getting the job go right down the toilet. Or turn up to court for speeding in a t-shirt that says F*ck the police, and see the judge give you a custodial sentence whereas he might otherwise have let you off with a slapped wrist.

此外，你可能想穿睡衣去面试。这样做，就可以看到你得到这份工作的机会一落千丈。或者穿着写着“去他妈的警察”的t恤来到法庭，法官会判处你监禁，当然，他也可能会打你一记耳光就放了你。

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What we want to do and what we should do are rarely compatible. The idea that we should just wear whatever we like regardless is childish and naive at best.

我们想做什么和应该做什么很少是相容的。认为我们应该随心所欲地穿任何衣服的想法是幼稚和天真的。

Tanvi Shetty

Yes you have the right to wear what you deem suitable but however it’s your duty to dress according to the ocassion as well as location you intend to visit .

For instance :

Just cause you like roaming in your undies and t-shirt at home does not mean you go wearing that to a job interview .

You do not show up at funeral in your wedding dress.

是的，你有权穿你认为合适的衣服，但你有责任根据你要去的地方和地点来着装。

例如：

仅仅因为你喜欢穿着内衣和t恤在家里闲逛并不意味着你会穿着它去面试。

你不会穿着婚纱出现在葬礼上。

Don’t wear excessively revealing clothes or wear fine pieces of experience jewellery in a shady neighbourhood .( Safety First ,mind ,you even decently dressed fully covered humans get attacked in such areas )

You do not enter a club wearing your jammies .

Will you go to bed in a ballgown or tux ??Or would you prefer something bratheable and comfortable to sleep in ??

不要在阴暗的街区穿过于暴露的衣服或佩戴精致的首饰。（注意，安全第一，即使穿着得体、一点都不露的人类也会在这些区域受到攻击）

你不能穿着睡衣进入俱乐部。

你会穿礼服或是燕尾服上床睡觉吗？？也许你会更喜欢沐浴后穿着舒适的衣服睡觉？

Duncan Ferguson

Within reason, yes. The question is, “What’s within reason?”

My take is modesty and safety must always be respected unless in an official clothing optional environment or in private in a consenting environment. Likewise is the location has a clearly stated dress code, it should be observed.

在合理范围内，是的。问题是：“什么是合理范围？”

我的看法是，庄重和安全的需求必须始终得到尊重，除非是规定了可以任选服装，或者私底下已经同意的环境中。同样，如果所在地有明确着装规定的，则应予以遵守。

It the workplace, clothing promoting competitors is clearly unsuitable as is any clothing with racial or inflammatory messaging. Clothing worn at work should at least be clean and tidy.

Likewise, if you’re stupid and try to push the envelope too far, you have to accept the consequence of rejection or banishment. had a laugh at someone who asked if he would get into trouble for wearing a diaper and crop top to Walmart. Why Walmart seems to be the place where you exhibit your worst is beyond me yet folk continue to do so. I’m very tolerant however I would do a double take and shake my head at a guy in a crop top and a diaper.

在工作场所，穿着竞争对手的服装显然是不合适的，任何带有种族或煽动性信息的服装也是不合适的。工作时穿的衣服至少应该干净整洁。

同样，如果你很愚蠢，试图超越界线，你必须接受被拒绝或被驱逐的后果。有个可笑的事，有人问他穿尿布和紧身上衣去沃尔玛会不会惹麻烦。我无法理解为什么沃尔玛似乎是你展示自己最差一面的地方，但人们仍在这样做。我很宽容，但我看到一个穿着紧身上衣和尿布的家伙，也会惊讶地怔住，然后摇摇头。

People get way to offended way to easily about what others wear. It pisses me off when I see questions phrased along the lines of, “What to you think when you see someone dressed in…” or “Should people over x years be ‘allowed’ to wear shorts or mini skirts or whatever”.

Even worse when a guy won’t wear a skirt somewhere in fear of violence or worse, or when a woman fears for her safety as she is dressed “provocatively”. What makes people think they are so much better than anyone else and have the right to bully, threaten and persecute others?

How much better off would we all be if instead of passing judgement and negativity, we practiced tolerance, understanding and acted graciously towards others.

Unless someone is a threat to my safety, I have no right or call to interfere with their lives. And neither they in mine.

人们很容易被别人的穿着冒犯。当我看到这样的问题：“当你看到某人穿着……你会怎么想”或“x岁以上的人应该‘允许’穿短裤或迷你裙或其他什么”时，我很生气。

更糟糕的是，当一个男人因为害怕暴力或更糟的事情而不敢穿裙子时，或者当一个女人因为穿着“有挑逗性”而担心自己的安全时。是什么让人们认为自己比任何人都好，有权欺负、威胁和迫害他人？

如果我们不去评判和否定，而是去宽容、理解并对他人和蔼可亲，那么我们的境况会好得多。

除非有人威胁到我的安全，否则我无权干涉他们的生活。他们对我亦应如是。

Shelley Higgins

This is a great question. The answer is yes…if you’re willing to take the consequences.

You can dress like a “sexworker” and get unwanted, crass male attention.

You can wear a halter top with your navel ring exposed to a business meeting and not get the contract.

You can wear a cutoff t shirt that shows your abundant tattoos and not get the job at the courtroom.

You can wear your pajamas to your daughter’s wedding and never be invited to her home again.

You can do many things that are really not advised. It’s up to you.

这是一个很好的问题。答案是肯定的……如果你愿意承担后果的话。

你可以穿得像个“性工作者”，得到不受欢迎、粗鲁的男性的关注。

你可以穿着吊带上衣，把肚脐环露在商务会议上，但是要承担拿不到合同的后果。

你可以穿一件无袖t恤，展示你满身的纹身，那你就得不到法庭上的工作。

你可以穿睡衣去参加女儿的婚礼，你女儿再也不会邀请你去她家了。

你可以做很多不被建议的事情。这取决于你。

Lizbeth Thornton

This has always been a complicated question for me. That to me is yes, it is your human right to wear what you will. Then..

Then I had girl children. It is my job, my heartfelt intent, to keep them safe. I learned through life that there is no inherent safety. What was difficult was to explain “the real world” to my kids. “The real world” called for me to teach physical self-protection measures to my kids. “The real world” provided teachers of Karate my money to buy groceries. My “girl children” are both black belts.

这对我来说一直是个复杂的问题。对我来说，是的，你想穿什么就穿什么是你的权力。但是后来……

后来我有了女儿。保护他们的安全是我的工作，是我发自内心的想法。我从生活中了解到，没有确信无疑的安全。困难的是向我的孩子们解释“真实世界”。真实世界呼吁我教我的孩子们学会保护自己的身体。真实世界让我愿意付钱给空手道老师们。我的女儿们都是黑带。

What was heart wringing was the explanation that safety oftentimes, comes before ..choice. I can wear what I want and get hurt. Is it fair?

No, life never promised me fairness. I have been hurt. One of my daughters has been hurt. The other learned from her sisters experiences.

I cannot change the totality of human nature. There is “bad” in both women and men. I learn and make choices that will hopefully, prevail our safety.

让人心痛的解释是，在选择面前，安全总是排在第一位的。我可以选择我想穿的，却要承担受到伤害的后果。这公平吗？

不，生活从来没有向我承诺过公平。我很受伤，我的一个女儿受到了伤害。另一个从她姐姐的经历中学习。

我无法改变人性。男人和女人都有“坏”的一面。我学习并做出选择，希望能赢得我们的安全。