我如何在美国获得成功_风闻

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Michael Grabinski, Webmaster, DevOps (2020-present)

Michael Grabinski, DevOps网站管理员(2020年至今)

First, let’s get one thing out of the way if you’re coming from Europe of South East Asia bad choice for places to come to live but your hands are probably tied. So I will be 100% honest with you and tell you what I can for advice from what I learned.

Okay so you come to Merica now what about the culture or work or mentality or laws, so let’s start with Merican culture first there is no set standard, in fact, there is no official language for the great states. But if you can consider how Americans think it’s that they are better than every country and can bomb and kill whoever they want(no joke many people think this way, not me or many other Americans but a lot do) it’s all about power and wealth here my friend. Oh and super sizes for food of course so if you want a short answer to fit in here of course that’s a slight exaggeration. But seriously I would like to note again not all American are ignorant and stupid just most.

Okay, let me really go into detail about how to fit in. One this culture is about work, power, and status. General American work more hours than in Europe, and laws are not as good here either.

So really culture wise you don’t have to change because they are many cultures here, but you’re probably saying okay what about anything else.

Well, one law changes a lot or not, for instance, my state will eliminate all plastic bags in stores within a year in a half, but not all state has the same laws.

首先，如果你来自欧洲和东南亚，那么我们有一件事要避免，那就是避免居住地点选择不当，但你的手可能会被束缚。所以我会百分之百诚实地告诉你我能从中学到什么建议。

好的，那么你现在来美国，关于文化、工作、心理或法律，我们先从美国文化开始，没有固定的标准，事实上，诺达的一个州是没有官方语言的。但是，如果你能考虑一下美国人是如何认为他们比每个国家都好，可以随心所欲地轰炸和杀害任何人的（很多人都这么认为，不是开玩笑，不是我或其他许多美国人，而是很多人这么认为），那么我的朋友这里的一切都是关于权力和财富的。哦，当然还有超大号的食物，所以如果你想要一个简短的答案来适应这里当然这有点夸张。但说真的，我想再次指出，不是所有的美国人都是无知和愚蠢的，只是大多数。

好吧，让我来详细谈谈如何融入。这种文化是关于工作、权力和地位的。一般美国人的工作时间比欧洲多，这里的法律也不那么完善。

所以从文化角度来说，你不必改变，因为这里有很多文化，但你可能会说，好吧，还有什么其他的呢。

嗯，一项法律是否会带来很大变化，例如，我所在的州将在一年半内淘汰商店中的所有塑料袋，但并非所有州都颁布相同的法律。

Be smart do your research

Learn that not one thing is right or wrong here, things are based state by state and culture example(SJW(not all are like this but some are extremist that give SJW a bad name) will tell you your a rapist and evil because your a man) so get over it or not assuming your a male or female I am not sure and honestly I don’t care because people may think otherwise but your gender isn’t gonna affect what I’m saying anyway.

Educate yourself or get more skills and find a good job if you work in the public sector it can be a very easy and reliable job, I cannot stress how important a good education and skills are here it’s not a want but a necessity

Be careful with meeting new people some people are awesome and others are bigots or robbers

To be American always make sure to supersize your meals and gain at least 70 pounds

Be prepared to work 40 hours or more a week and have shitty pay for your first jobs

聪明地做你的研究

要知道这里没有一件事是对的或错的，事情是以各州为基础的，文化的例子（社会正义战士（并非所有的都是这样，但一些极端主义者给社会正义战士一个坏名声）会告诉你你是强奸犯，因为你是男人，所以你是邪恶的），所以不管你是男是女，我都不确定，老实说，我不在乎，因为人们可能会有不同的想法，但你的性别无论如何都不会影响我说的话。

让自己接受教育或获得更多的技能并找到一份好工作，如果你在公共部门工作，此工作可以是一个非常容易和可靠的工作，我不能强调良好的教育和技能在这里有多么重要，这不是需要，而是必须的。

结识新朋友时要小心一些人很厉害，另一些人是偏执狂或强盗。

要想成为美国人，一定要确保你的膳食超大，体重至少增加70磅

准备好每周工作40个小时或更长时间，并且第一份工作的薪水很低

Get more educated learn about stocks and business that’s what America is made of

The hard truth is the rich are rich and most a poor of course the only way not to be poor is to have some kind of good degree or really valuable skill many people are desperate for work so if you don’t have a good education back to step 3

Save for many painfully long year’s buy a house that you will owe a mortgage to for 30 years and get a wife some kids drink some beers outside and live the American dream.

Okay, final step your living the American dream and have a beautiful house and family, now go on Quora and answer some question so people can think your crazy but in all seriousness, many of these steps I listed are important.

P.S. sorry for grammar and even though I joked about something I meant what I said about many of the steps and how crucial education is here and working and struggling to succeed so I wish you luck and I probably didn’t answer ai best I could but honest but you taking the effort to ask this question ensures me you’ll do find may luck be forever in your favor,

接受更多教育，了解股票和商业，这就是美国的组成部分

严酷的事实是，富人都是富人，而大多数人都是穷人。当然，不贫穷的唯一途径就是拥有某种好的学位或真正有价值的技能。许多人都渴望工作，所以如果你没有受过良好的教育，就又回到第三步。

历经多年痛苦攒钱，你将欠30年的抵押贷款，娶个老婆，生几个孩子，在外面喝点啤酒，实现美国梦。

好的，最后一步，你要实现美国梦，拥有一个美丽的房子和家庭，现在去Quora，回答一些问题，这样人们会认为你疯了，但说真的，我列出的许多步骤都很重要。

我对糟糕的语法感到抱歉，尽管我开玩笑说了一些事情，但我说的很多步骤和教育是多么重要，我是认真的，工作和奋斗都是为了成功，所以我祝你好运，我可能没有尽我所能回答，但诚实地说，你努力问这个问题的状态让我确信好运永远眷顾你。

Devon Lee, lives in Fremont, CA

Have a goal: what do you want to do? what did you come here for? to make more money? meet a girl? Be a famous movie star?whatever it may be make sure you have a goal to see progress, celebrate milestones . This is single handedly the most important step. You need a good structured plan on how you will progress and make it to your goal and how you will get there.

Education? Whatever it is you need a goal Education education education. huge priority. 

Stable living conditions: quality house, good car , good family well being ect.

Choosing the right city : Assuming you are a immigrant try to live in the biggest cities or metropolitan areas where there are alot of different races andgroups. The best place to start would be southern california or northern california. But some other good places are seattle washington, austinTX, Las vegas nevada, New york city. Chicago, new jersey , or any major metro city on the east coast. These cities have alot of opportunity

Avoid these states: Utah montana wyoming, idaho, and northern nevada. These states are a big no no they lower moral .also there is some racism here to be careful.

有一个目标：你想做什么？你来这里干什么？为了赚更多的钱？遇到一个女孩？成为著名的电影明星？无论是什么，都要确保你有一个看到进步、用来庆祝里程碑式的目标。这是最重要的一步。你需要一个良好的结构化计划，说明你将如何进步，如何实现目标，以及你将如何做到。

教育？不管是什么，你都需要一个目标。巨大的优先级。

稳定的生活条件：优质的房子，好的汽车，好的家庭福利等。

选择正确的城市：假设你是移民，试着生活在最大规模的城市或大都市地区，那里有许多不同的种族和群体。最好从南加州或北加州开始。但其他一些不错地方是西雅图华盛顿、奥斯汀、拉斯维加斯内华达、纽约市。芝加哥、新泽西或东海岸的任何主要大都市，这些城市有很多机会。

避开这些州：犹他州、蒙大拿州、怀俄明州、爱达荷州和内华达州北部。这些州不大，人们道德低下。这里也有一些种族主义需要小心。

Always go 100% full send on your goals and dreams. DO NOT SLACK do not waste time. You always have to be on the drift going above and beyond. If you go easy on yourself you are bound to be medicore . Everyone here is on a grind to reach there goals you need to compete with them. This is a very important step do not go easy on yourself do not waste time.

Never go hungry, never lose hope. Ive been through the worse, have seen the worse. Karma is strong here 

Manage money well. Materialism is americas popular poison. Do not be distracted or waste your money on useless junk over quality items

Hope this helps if you have any other questions PM me or comment :)

永远100%地实现你的目标和梦想。不要懈怠，不要浪费时间。你必须总是前进，超越自我。如果你对自己放松一点，如果你注定要做医学生，要知道这里的每个人都在努力达到你需要与他们竞争的目标。这是一个非常重要的步骤，不要放松对自己，不要浪费时间。

永远不要挨饿，永远不要失去希望。我经历过更糟的，也见过更糟的。因果报应在这里是很明显的。

管理好资金。物质主义是美国流行的毒药。不要分心，也不要把钱浪费在无用的垃圾上，而应该获得高质量的物品。

如果你有任何其他问题，请私信我或评论，希望这对你有所帮助。