话题：你更喜欢朋友多一点还是朋友少一点？_风闻

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Answerow

On a personal level as well as on social level, I prefer just a few friends. There is a saying which says that ‘friends should be few and good one’. I follow that good adage. That apart personally, I don’t believe in having too many friends. It is because we should not waste our precious time unnecessarily with friends and we have to give some time to our personal life too. After all, I too have a life to look after and care about.

There is also a saying why a person’s life gets improved or spoiled is all because of friends. I strongly believe having too many friends will only waste your time and their time and nothing concrete would be achieved out of such friend’s circle. I know people who are spoiled because of their friends.

无论是在个人层面还是在社交层面，我更喜欢朋友少一点，有一句谚语说“朋友应该少而精”，我遵循这句格言。就我个人而言，我不希望有太多朋友，这是因为我们不应该在朋友身上不必要地浪费我们的宝贵时间，我们也必须给我们的个人生活一些时间，毕竟，我们也有自己的生活要照顾和关心。

还有一种说法，为什么一个人的生活会得到改善或被破坏，都是因为朋友。我坚信拥有太多的朋友只会浪费你的时间和他们的时间，在这样的朋友圈子里不会有什么实质的意义，我就知道有些人的生活因为朋友而被破坏了。

Ruthmongare

“Too many cooks spoil the brooth” same applies to someone when they have many friends. When you have many friends, the possibility of being influenced by peer pressure is very high. Each one of them will try bringing up different ideas into you head thus poisoning your brain.

It’s good to have few friends like 2 or 3 who are trustable and reliable and will always come at your rescue when you’re in need. Whenever it comes to friendship, don’t trust anyone 100% though. Some friends are just evil from inside and will be not show you. Their joy will be celebrating your downfall but whe they’re with you are good. Its advisable to hear your friends advises but don’t do what they tell you.

“太多的厨师会坏了一锅粥”，这句话同样适用于有很多朋友的人。当你有很多朋友时，受到同龄人压力影响的可能性非常大，他们中的每一个人都会试图把不同的想法带入你的头脑，从而毒害你的大脑。

有几个朋友就挺好了，比如两三个值得信赖和可靠的朋友，他们总是在你需要的时候出现在你的身边。但凡涉及到友谊，不要100%相信任何人，有些朋友从内心就是邪恶的，不会向你展露出来，他们会为你的失败而高兴、庆祝，但是当他们和你在一起的时候，表面是好的，明智的做法是听取朋友的建议，但不要照他们说的去做。

Keibah

I prefer to have just a few friends. I have a very close group of friends and I like it that way because I’m a very reserved person who likes to open up to Just a few. Still I have a lot of acquaintances and I like to keep it that way. I also think that as you grow older, some People will naturally leave your life.Other people feel it is good for them to keep in touch with a lot of friends.They enjoy the multitude. Especially those who intend to become public figures. They feel that keeping a lot of company will be in their best interest and security. I’d say whatever you are comfortable with is what you should be doing as long as relationships with others aren’t toxic.

我喜欢只有几个朋友。我有几个非常亲密的朋友，我喜欢这样，因为我是一个非常内向的人，更倾向于对很少的人敞开心扉。尽管如此，我还是有很多泛泛之交的朋友，而且我喜欢保持这种状态，我还认为，随着年龄的增长，有些人会自然而然地离开你的生活。

其他人觉得和很多朋友保持联系对他们有好处，他们喜欢人多的地方，尤其是那些想成为公众人物的人，他们觉得和很多人在一起会使他们的利益和安全最大化，我想说的是，只要你和别人的关系不是有害的，你就应该做你觉得舒服的事情。

Poehere

I have always been a person who has moved around most of my life. It was hard for me to have a lot of friends and then I needed to say goodbye when I moved again. Over the years I’ve learned that having too many friends isn’t always the best for me. I like to have a handful of good friends that are there and I can count on them and they can count on me. When I was younger I loved to make friends with everyone. I thought it was great to have a lot of friends near me all the time. However, this was a very bad idea. In the end, it was basically me who ended up doing for them and they never gave anything in return.

You’ll find out as you grow older who is really a good friend and who isn’t. I feel it is best for me to have a few great friends around me than a ton of people who are just there to profit on me and get what they can. I like to have 3 or 4 good friends than 20 friends who don’t really care about me at all.

我是一个在我生命中大部分时间都在搬家的人。对我来说，有很多朋友很难，然后当我再次搬家时，我需要说再见。多年来，我了解到，有太多的朋友并不总是对我最好的，我更喜欢只有少数几个好朋友，我可以依靠他们，他们也可以依靠我。我年轻的时候喜欢和每个人交朋友，我认为有很多朋友一直伴随我身边是件好事，然而，这是个非常糟糕的想法，最后，基本上是我最后为他们竭力付出，而他们却从未给予任何回报。

随着你年龄的增长，你会发现谁是真正的好朋友，谁不是。我觉得对我来说，身边有几个好朋友是最好的，而不是一大堆朋友却只为了在我身上获利，得到他们能得到的东西，我更喜欢3到4个真正的好朋友，而不是20个根本不关心我的朋友。

Grecy095

I only wish to have few friends which I have now. I have lots of friends, but I am not sure if they care about me like I care about them, so maintain to have two friends. I have two friends. We met August 24, 2007. We are celebrating our 15 years of friendship. They are my friends who have been with me through rough times. Some friends around me only know me if they need something, but these two best friends of mine, they are with me through good times and bad times. They treat my problems are their own and I am doing the same with them. If you will just keep a few friends with you, you get to know more about them intimately and the experience is the same with them too. You can be kind to lots of people but you cannot trust them all. You just need a few people that will love you and tht is enough.

我只希望有几个我现在有的朋友。我有很多朋友，但我不确定他们是否像我关心他们那样关心我，所以我与其中两个保持较好的朋友关系，我们2007年8月24日认识，我们正在庆祝我们15年的友谊，他们是我的朋友，是陪我度过难关的朋友，我周围的一些朋友只有在他们需要的时候才想起我，但我这两个最好的朋友，一直陪伴着我，无论是艰难时刻还是快乐时光，他们把我的事当自己的事，我也在这样对待他们，如果你只保留几个朋友在身边，你就会更深入地了解他们，，他们的经历也是一样的，你可以对很多人好，但你不能信任所有人，你只需要几个爱你的人，这就足够了。

Greencrayon

I prefer to have only a few friends whom I can rely on. Quality over quantity. You may ask yourself--do you prefer having broad acquaintances or a number of people you can call at 2:00 AM when you badly need a drink or just someone to talk to?

Also, truth is, even if you are in a group of people whom you have known for a couple of years, you cannot be in the same level of closeness with every single one of them. You will eventually develop deep connection with a few of them and some of them may not even be your friend till the very end, especially when both of you become distant for whatever reason.

I do believe that there is nothing worthy in sticking with people who do not (intend) to know you, your dreams, your quirks, your failures, etc.

我更喜欢只拥有几个我可以依靠的朋友，质量高于数量，你可以问自己——你是更喜欢有一大堆泛泛之交的朋友，还是喜欢有一些可以在凌晨两点在你急需喝一杯的时候陪你，或者在你只是想找个人聊聊的时候，你可以打电话的朋友？

另外，事实是，即使你是在一群你认识了几年的人中，你也不可能和他们每一个人都保持同样的亲密程度，你最终会和他们中的一些人建立起深厚的关系，其中一些人甚至可能直到最后都不会成为你的朋友，尤其是当你们因为某种原因变得疏远的时候。

我确信，与那些不(打算)了解你、不了解你的梦想、不了解你的怪癖、不了解你的失败等等的人在一起，实在是没有什么值得坚持的。

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Sprite1950

If I’m honest I have a lot of acquaintances but not many close friends and I like it that way. I would say I have only three friends that I would call close, people I know I can depend on and tell them secrets that I know they will keep. There are people who I thought I was close to and did many favours and then when I asked them to help me they didn’t want to know .. I realised then they were not true friends.

Most of the people I am close to I have known a long time, 30 years or more, and even though we have moved in different directions through marriage or moving away, we will always help each other out in times of need. To me that’s what true friendship means, someone who is always there for you and will move heaven and earth to help if they can.

说实话，我有很多交情浅的朋友，但是亲密的朋友不多，我喜欢这样。我会说，我只有三个朋友，我觉得是很亲密的，我知道他们是我可以依靠的人，我可以告诉他们我的秘密，我知道他们会保守秘密。有些人我认为我和他们很亲近，我也帮了他们很多忙，然后当我请他们帮助我时，他们却不想帮我…..我意识到他们不是真正的朋友。

大多数与我关系密切的人我都认识很久了，30年或更久，尽管我们因为结婚或者搬家而走向不同的方向，但是在需要的时候我们总是会互相帮助，对我来说，这才是友谊的真正含义所在，一个永远在你身边的人，如果可以的话，他会竭尽全力帮助你。