日常生活：一个人一生中最有价值的技能是什么？_风闻

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Anubha Saxena, HR- Executive at Hindustan Unilever

Learn to be happy alone. If you master this skill, trust me, nobody can take away your happiness from you. Be your own best friend, enjoy your own company, and be happy. If you master this skill, eventually you will start appreciating people in your life!

独自一人时要学会快乐。如果你掌握了这项技能，相信我，没有人能夺走你的快乐。做自己最好的朋友，享受自己的陪伴并快乐着。如果你掌握了这项技能，最终你会开始欣赏生活中的人！

Shubham Sagar, LL.B Faculty of Law, University of Delhi (2020)

The ability to express your thoughts.

Seriously, I believe this is something most of us lack. It’s extremely important for a person to learn to put into words, what he thinks. It makes a relationship last. It creates an impression on the person you’re talking to. It gives you a chance to explore what others think about your ideas. It lets you answer questions on Quora in a way other people understand.

Although I’m no expert, I can say that you can always develop this skill simply by learning to talk without fear. Talk to a stranger, a fellow passenger on a train or your child-hood crush, they won’t mind (I’m not sure about your crush, though). That way, you’ll be forced to express your thoughts as clearly as possible. And that’s exactly how you learn the art of expressing yourself and your ideas!

So, go out, talk to someone. Unleash your mind. Express yourself!

表达想法的能力。

说真的，我相信这是我们大多数人都缺乏的。 对于一个人来说，学会用语言表达他的想法是极其重要的。 它能使一段关系保持长久。 它会使与你交谈的人留下印象。 它让你有机会探索其他人对你的想法的看法。 它让你用其他人可以理解的方式回答 Quora 上的问题。

虽然我不是专家，但我可以说，只要学会无所畏惧地说话，就可以培养这种技能。 与陌生人、火车上的乘客或你童年时的暗恋对象交流，他们不会介意（不过我不确定你的暗恋对象介不介意）。 这能逼你尽可能清楚地表达你的想法，而且这也确实能让你学到表现自我和自己想法的艺术！

所以，出去找个人谈谈吧。释放你的思想。表达你自己！

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María Sefidari, love to learn about Human behavior every day

Resilience.

At one point or another of your life, you will fall. You will not get that job you so wanted, someone will break your heart, someone dear to you will die, you may be betrayed, see no way out…

The point is, you will feel like the ground has shaken under your feet. You may lose faith in everything and see everything black. No hope of pulling out.

Being able to rebound from that, to not let it sink you, to reinvent yourself and pull your life up and forward… That’s the best skill you may ever learn. Failure is inevitable, a part of life. Defeat is optional.

恢复力。 

在你生命的某一时刻，你会跌倒。你得不到你想要的工作，有人会伤你的心，你亲近的人会死去，你可能会被背叛，无路可走……

关键是，你会觉得脚下的土地在摇晃。你可能对一切失去信心，看到一切都是黑暗的。没有走出来的希望。

要能够从失败中恢复过来，不要让失败击垮你，重新塑造你自己，让你的生活向上向前。这可能是你学到的最好的技能了。失败是不可避免的，是生活的一部分。失败是可以选择的。

Jay Mehta, Customer Success & Growth @ Host4Geeks

Stop thinking about what other people think of you.

1. In all honesty, no one cares.

You’re not special. It is a vicious circle. We go through our days thinking of what the other person is thinking of us. At the same time, that “other person” is thinking about what you think of him and no one has the time to actually think about anyone.

2. “I don’t know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everybody.”

You will never be able to please everyone. You will always be judged. But what is the worst thing that can happen when someone judges you?

Yes, that’s the right answer.

Nothing.

3. Live YOUR life, not a life that OTHERS want you to live.

Stop shaping your life on the basis on what others think of you and how others want to see you.

不要再去想别人怎么看你了。

1.老实说，没人在乎。

你并不特别。这是一个恶性循环。我们每天都在想着别人对我们的看法。同时，“另一个人”也在想着你对他的看法，没有人有时间真正去想别人什么样。

2.“我不知道成功的关键是什么，但失败的关键是试图取悦所有人。”

你永远无法取悦所有人。你将永远被评判。但当有人评判你时，最糟糕的事情是什么？

是的，这是正确的答案。

这没有什么关系。

3.过你自己的生活，而不是别人希望你过的生活。

不要根据别人对你的看法和别人希望看到你的方式来塑造你的生活。

Sarvesh Jain, Ph.D. Philosophy & Quotes and Quotations , World Records University (2016)

The art of talking.

When to talk

Whom to talk to

What to talk (content)

How much to talk

This art can be developed over time and can be implemented on many situations throughout life.

If you have a great idea but the time and the person (receiver) is not right, it won’t become anything.

If the time and person are great but the content is lacking structure, nothing will shape up again.

If the person and the content is in place but the time isn’t, nothing definite will happen again.

说话的艺术

什么时候说话

跟谁说话

说什么（内容）

要说多少

这种艺术可以随着时间的推移而发展，并且可以在一生中的许多情况下实行。

如果你有一个好主意，但是时间和接受者都不对，那么它不会成为什么。

如果时间和人都很好，但内容缺乏条理，就不会再有什么东西了。

如果人员和内容到位，但时间不到位，那么就不会再发生任何确定的事情。