你最欣赏或喜欢另一个人的哪些品质_风闻

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Viren Sharma, Civil Engineer at JMCC

When they don’t do any kind of back bitching.

When their eye actually mean what their words are delivering.

When they genuinely become happy by seeing others getting more successful than them.

When they proudly accept their religion.

When they are same inside out.

When they deny to cave in front of peer pressure.

他们从不在背后埋怨；

他们的眼睛透露出他们所说的话。

他们看到别人比他们自己更成功能真诚的为之高兴。

他们骄傲地接受自己的宗教信仰。

他们从里到外都一样。

他们拒绝在同伴压力面前屈服。

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Sanyukta, B.Sc. Computer Science Engineering, University of Wisconsin - Madison (2023)

I have a Muslim friend called Farhan.

I’m going back to the time when we were only beginning to become friends.

At that point, I had some strong opinions regarding other Muslims that I knew and told him how I thought that Islam didn’t treat their women right.

When I’ve seen people expressing negative emotions about a different religion, the other party almost always gets super offended.

Farhan? Not at all. In fact, he agreed with me on several points that I mentioned that I’m sure would’ve offended my other Muslim friends.

Once we were discussing Hinduism and I was enlightening him with Hindu customs and beliefs.

He was fascinated, and not just that, he even decided to add reading the Bhagavad Gita to his reading list.

I was surprised.

Pleasantly so.

Farhan’s a Muslim guy who does his prayers every day. But he’s open-minded enough to know and believe that delving into another religion does not make him a non-Muslim.

我有一个穆斯林朋友叫法罕（Farhan）。

我要回到我们刚开始成为朋友的时候。

那时，我对我认识的其他穆斯林有一些强烈的看法，我告诉他，我认为伊斯兰教没有正确对待他们的女性。

当我看到人们对不同的宗教表达负面情绪时，对方几乎总是非常生气。

而法罕一点也不生气。事实上，他同意我提到的几点，我确信这会冒犯我的其他穆斯林朋友。

有一次我们在讨论印度教，我用印度教的习俗和信仰来启发他。

他被迷住了，不仅如此，他甚至决定把阅读《博伽梵歌》加入他的阅读清单。

我很惊讶，但为之高兴。

法罕是一个每天都做祈祷的穆斯林。但他思想开放，知道并相信钻研其他宗教并不能使他成为非穆斯林。

Which qualities do you most admire or like in another person?

Open-mindedness and conscience clear of age-old illogical customs are what makes me instantly like the person.

Farhan and I have grown to be best friends and I couldn’t have asked for a more amazing person like him in my life.

PS: My opinions about Islam may or may not have changed, but it does not make me love my fellow Muslim people any less. Just wanted to make it clear as crystal.

你最欣赏或喜欢另一个人的哪些品质？

开明的思想和对古老不合逻辑的习俗的清醒的认知使我立刻喜欢上了这个人。

他和我已经成为了最好的朋友，在我的生活中，我再也找不到一个像他这样令人惊叹的人了。

附注：我对伊斯兰教的看法可能有改变，也可能没有改变，但这并没有减少我对穆斯林同胞的爱，我只是想把事情说清楚。

Vijeta Anand, Associate at PwC US (2017-present)

Being adaptable to keep oneself happy.

It is a trait that not only allows you to be happy in the worst of the situations but also make the life of others around you a little bit better. There are people who can stand by the vast sea and complain about the humid weather whereas there are others who might look for a slight hint of light within a dark room.

I believe that there are times when we feel miserable and it is human to feel so, but letting that feeling hover over you and cringing about it day in and day out will only have worse effect.

适应能力强，使自己快乐。

这种特质不仅能让你在最糟糕的情况下感到快乐，还能让你周围的人的生活变得更好一点。有些人站在浩瀚的大海边会抱怨潮湿的天气，而另一些人可能会在黑暗的房间里去寻找一丝光亮。

我相信有时我们会感到痛苦，这是天性，难免都会遇到，但让那种感觉萦绕在你心头，日复一日地为之畏缩不前，只会产生更糟糕的效果。

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Kelley Spartiatis, Common sense and strong opinions, that’s me.

Without thinking about it at all, I admire people who are optimistic, hopeful, kind, empathetic, intelligent, honest, fun and funny too!

I also admire people who are open about their feelings and able to show it.

I admire people who are forgiving but aren’t a pushover either. I don’t like that kind of weakness.

Strength is an important quality but strength comes in many forms. The strength that matters to me is strength of character not physical strength.

One of the most important qualities for me is that a person can admit when they are wrong. I can’t and won’t deal with people who think they are perfect. 

不用多想，我欣赏那些乐观、满怀希望、善良、有同情心、聪明、诚实、奋进和有趣的人!

我也欣赏那些对自己的感情开诚布公并能够表达出来的人。

我欣赏那些宽容但不容易被说服的人，我不喜欢软弱。

力量是一种重要的品质，但力量有多种形式。对我来说重要的力量是性格上的力量，而不是体力。

对我来说，一个人最重要的品质之一就是敢于承认自己的错误。我不能也不会和自认为完美的人打交道。。

Aditi Balduwa, Perennial learner | Perpetual reader | Constant observer.

The people who function on logic.

The problem-solvers. You give them any situation and they will break it down into logical pieces and simplify it to you in no time. 

They make you see that the problems which you were considering as mammoth can actually be easily solved if you change your perception and think more logically.

They are so uncomplicated and aware that this is the situation, these are the pros and cons, these are favourable options, these can be the outcomes and so these are the steps to follow to reach them.

They don`t fret over issues. Advices from such people are often worth it because it either gives you a way to your solutions or a way to think towards solutions.

Its rare that somebody can be so obxtive and unambiguous.

那些靠逻辑做事的人。

解决问题者。他们遭遇任何一种情况，他们都会把它分解成有逻辑的部分，然后很快地把它简化出来。

它们让你看到，如果你改变你的看法，带有逻辑地去思考，那些你原本认为是难搞的问题实际上可以很容易地被解决。

其实他们如此简单，然后意识到情况就是这样：有利和不利部分、有利的选择和结果都清晰明了，还有就是达到目标的步骤也非常清晰。

他们不为问题而烦恼。来自这些人的建议通常是值得的，因为它要么给你提供了一种解决方案的方法，要么给你提供了一种解决方案的思考方法。

很少有人能如此客观和明确。

Vidhya Bharathi, Ph.D Biotechnology, Indian Institute of Technology, Hyderabad (2020)

Vidhya Bharathi，生物技术博士，印度理工学院，海德拉巴(2020)

To give love unasked,

To converse without making it all around themselves,

To genuinely listen when the other is low and want to talk,

To narrate the stories of the world with gleaming eyes,

To intimately understand the secrets of equality and stand by it,

To subscribe to responsiblities without guilt,

To know when to give a great hug and silence,

To never take love and kindness for granted,

To stay when someone needs,

To have courage to be vulnerable,

To love this world just enough to wake up to another day with hope.

不求回报地给予爱，

在不围绕自己的情况下交谈，

当对方情绪低落想说话时，真诚地倾听，

用闪烁的眼睛讲述世界的故事，

深入了解平等的秘密保守秘密，

勇于承担责任，

知道什么时候该主动，什么时候该沉默，

永远不要把爱和友善视为理所当然，

在有人需要的时候留下，

要有勇气面对脆弱，

爱这个世界，只为带着希望醒来迎接新的一天。