观点：是否被冒犯是一种选择~_风闻

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正文原创翻译：

Some people get offended while others do not by the same words. Being offended is a personal feeling and if you grow a thick skin and grow some self esteem you should be able to deal with it well. Only you can decide whether what other people say is able to affect you. We cannot control what other people say but we can control how we respond to it.

同一句话，有些人会感觉到被冒犯，而另一些人则不会。被冒犯是一种很私密的感觉，而如果你长了一张厚脸皮，也拥有一定的自尊心，那你应该能妥善地处理它。只有你能决定别人说的话会不会影响到你。我们无法控制别人说什么，但我们可以控制自己的反应。

评论翻译

420xyolo

We cannot control what other people say but we can control how we respond to it.

Agreed, however, imo being offended is more of a feeling than a response. You can feel offended, but respond cordially.

“我们无法控制别人说什么，但我们可以控制自己的反应。”

同意，但在我看来，被冒犯更多是一种感觉，而不是一种反应。你可以感觉到被冒犯，但友善地作出回应。

undeadhambread3123

Words only have power if you give them power. I agree, it takes a professional to offend me…

话语会有力量，只是因为你赋予了话语力量。我同意，须得是专业人士才能冒犯到我…

I put pineapples on my pizza and ketchup on my hot dogs

（回）我会在我的披萨上搁菠萝，还会拿热狗蘸番茄酱吃

As a Chicago native I’ve never seen an opinion more wrong.

（回）作为芝加哥本地人，我从来没见过比你这更荒唐的看法了。

（译注：芝加哥人吃热狗一般不配番茄酱）

Ketchup + mustard. Or replace with beanless chili.

These are the only acceptable hot dog toppings. Get that relish and onion shit out of my sight.

（回）番茄酱+芥末。或者用不含豆类的辣椒酱代替。

只有这些才是可以接受的热狗配酱。那些调味品和带洋葱的玩意儿，还是赶紧滚出我的视线吧。

AlicornGamer

the more power you let the opposition have over words, the less stable you’ll be at just being offended at every little thing.

你越是由着对手赋予言语更多力量，你就越是不稳定，如果是这样，那每一件小事都会冒犯到你。

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Everybody must fall into this trap then. Words have changed the course of nations. Even heard the saying the pen is mightier than the sword?

（回）要是这样的话，那每个人都势必会掉进这个陷阱了。话语已经改变了各国的进程。

你甚至都听过那句格言：笔杆子的威力比刀剑大。

Rintipinti

We cannot control how we feel, only what behaviour we carry out. It’s indeed possible to develop a thick skin, but the initial emotion of anger as a consequence of one’s surroundings is beyond control in any other way.

我们不能控制自己的感觉，只能控制自己拿出什么样的行为。练就一张厚脸皮确实是有可能的，但一开始因为周围的环境而产生的愤怒情绪是其他任何方式都无法控制的。

The initial feeling we cannot control indeed, but we can choose not to let this feelings control us.

（回）最初的感觉确实是我们无法控制的，但我们可以控制的是，不让这种感觉左右自己。

What makes you think we can’t control how we feel?

（回）你凭什么就认定我们无法控制自己的感觉呢？

My thoughts too. In certain ways we have to be able to control our emotions.

（回）我也是这么想的。通过一些特定的方法，我们想必还是能控制自己的情绪的。

I think what they mean is sometimes its hard to NOT feel some kind of negative feeling over someones actions and words, but we CAN control how long it affects us and how we react externally

（回）我觉得他们的意思是，有时我们很难不因为某些人的行为和话语而心生某种负面的感觉，但它影响我们的时长以及我们的对外反应则是我们可以控制的。

Self discipline is essential

（回）自律是必不可少的