我怎么才能幸福快乐_风闻

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Rohit Kashyap, Founder and CEO at Maytree School (2019-present)

Once Upon a time, there was a saint. He was disturbed by one of his students.

His Student was very lazy and always use to procrastinate and The saint used to be disturbed by his student.

One day in morning saint called that student and given him a piece of stone and said to him that it is magical stone and whenever you touch the stone with iron. the iron will become gold.

The student was happy that the saint had given him magical stone but saint had also mentioned that he is going outside the village and he will come back tomorrow in eve.. after coming back he will take the stone.

The saint left the place after handing over the magical stone to his student.

Now the student started thinking about what he can do with that stone. first, he decided that he will think the whole day what can be done after getting so much wealth.

Next Day, he thought the saint will come in the evening, He has a lot of time he decided to have lunch first then after launch he decided to take some rest and after that, he will go to market buy a lot of iron and convert that in gold.

从前，有个圣人，他被他的一个学生打扰了。

圣人的学生非常懒惰，经常拖拖拉拉，圣人常常被学生打扰。

一天早晨，圣人把那个学生叫来，给了他一块石头，并对他说，这是一块神奇的石头，你用铁去碰它。铁会变成金子。

学生很高兴圣人给了他魔法石，但圣人也提到他要去村外，明天晚上就会回来。回来后，他会把石头拿走。

圣人把魔法石交给他的学生后离开了那个地方。

现在这个学生开始思考他可以用那块石头做什么。首先，他决定一整天都想在得到这么多财富后能做些什么。

第二天，他以为圣人会在晚上来，他有很多时间，他决定先吃午饭，然后在行动，他决定休息一下，然后，他会去市场买很多铁，转化成黄金。

while taking rest he was thinking about what he will do after getting that much money, And suddenly he falls asleep. In the evening he wakes up and runs towards the market for buying iron but in the way, he found the saint and saint said your time is over now, give me back the stone.

Now Let’s come on the actual question, How can I be happy?

There is one rule of being happy and successful is Taking Action.

Take Action when other procrastinate. Take action when others are sleeping. Take Action when others are thinking. Take action when others are not even listening. Take action when others are daydreaming. Dreamers can’t change the world, Doers can. Start Taking actions and the action brings satisfaction of trying instead of thinking. The simple way of being happy is taking action.

“Remember, it isn’t the dreamers who have good lives - it’s the doerS.”

休息的时候，他在想得到那么多钱后会做什么，突然他睡着了。晚上，他醒了，跑到市场去买铁，但在路上，他找到了圣人，圣人说，你的时间已经结束了，把石头还给我。

现在让我们来讨论真正的问题，我如何才能快乐?

要想获得快乐和成功，有一条规则就是采取行动。

在其他人拖延的时候采取行动。在别人睡觉的时候采取行动。在别人思考的时候采取行动。当别人都不听的时候就采取行动。当别人在做白日梦的时候采取行动。梦想家不能改变世界，实干家可以。开始采取行动，行动会给你带来尝试而不是思考的满足感。快乐的简单方法就是采取行动。

“记住，拥有美好生活的并不是梦想家，而是实干家。”

Yann Girard, Entrepreneur | Author | Life | Blogger

The happiest person I’ve ever met in my life wasn’t a millionaire, a billionaire or someone that won the lottery (I actually haven’t met any of those three yet, but it helps the story).

It was a guy that works at the cashier at my local supermarket.

He seems to be the happiest, friendliest and most fulfilled person on this planet.

I never saw someone being so passionate about doing his job. He talks to everyone, asks how their day was and usually lightens up my and everybody else’s day. It’s a gift.

Sometimes I even go and buy my stuff there just to see his friendliness at work. It fascinates me every time.

But it also makes me wonder what his recipe might be, his recipe for happiness. And why so many people are chasing what he seems to have found.

Most importantly, he probably found it without ever having searched for it. Maybe one magic morning it just happened to be there. And I guess that might be his secret sauce.

The secret sauce that might help all of us to be happier and enjoy our lives even more (in case there is such thing as happiness).

我一生中遇到的最幸福的人不是百万富翁，不是亿万富翁，也不是中了彩票的人(实际上这三种人我都没见过，这对我的故事有帮助)。

我家附近超市的收银员打来似乎是这个星球上最快乐、最友好、最满足的人。

我从没见过有人这么热爱自己的工作。他和每个人聊天，问他们这一天过得怎么样，通常会让我和其他人的一天变得愉快，这是一个礼物。

有时我甚至会去那里买东西，只是为了看看他在工作中的友善。它每次都让我着迷。

但这也让我想知道他的幸福秘诀是什么。还有为什么那么多人追逐他似乎已经找到的东西。

最重要的是，他可能在没有寻找的情况下就找到了它。也许是某个神奇的早晨它碰巧在那里。我猜这可能是他的秘密武器。

秘密酱料可能会帮助我们所有人更快乐，甚至更享受我们的生活。

As soon as we start questioning what we are currently doing, see hundreds of other shiny opportunities, start comparing ourselves to others and let ourselves blind by the awesome lives that others seem to be living on the outside we start questioning our own path.

We get the feeling that something might be missing in our lives. A feeling that could best be described with unhappiness. So we start the pursuit of happiness. A never ending pursuit…

This is something completely natural and human. So the question should be more about how we can stop questioning our own path and start living a happy life instead.

To answer this question let’s take a look at this beautiful short story, which is a true story by the way (originally appeared in form of a poem in The New Yorker, May 16th, 2005):

An author was at a party on Shelter Island given by a billionaire. A friend came over to him and asked him how he felt that the guy throwing this party makes more money a day than he will ever be able to make with all of his books combined. And the author said, “Fair enough. But I’ve got something he can never have”. “Now what could that be?”, his friend was wondering. And the author replied, “Enough”.

Not having enough is the beginning of the vicious circle and the reason why we start comparing ourselves with others, start questioning our own path and feel like something is missing (although we might already have everything).

As soon as we start realizing the power of having enough we might get a step closer to finding the key to happiness.

The key that the guy working at the cashier at my local supermarket has found already. The key we are all trying to find.

一旦我们开始质疑我们现在正在做的事情，看到成百上千的其他闪亮的机会，开始与他人比较，让自己被他人美好生活所蒙蔽，我们开始质疑自己的道路。

我们总觉得生活中缺失了什么。这种感觉可以用不快乐来形容。所以我们开始永无止境的追求幸福。

这是完全自然和人性的事情。所以问题应该更多地是关于我们如何停止对自己的道路的质疑，转而开始一种幸福的生活。

为了回答这个问题，让我们来看看这个美丽的短篇故事，这是一个真实的故事(最初以诗歌的形式出现)

一位作家参加了一个亿万富翁在希尔德岛举办的聚会。一个朋友来找他，说他觉得开这个派对的人一天赚的钱比他所有的书加起来赚的还多。作者说，“很好。但我拥有他永远得不到的东西。”“那是什么呢?”他的朋友想。作者回答说:“够了。”

觉得不够就是恶性循环的开始，这也是为什么我们开始与他人比较，开始质疑自己的道路，感觉缺少了一些东西(尽管我们可能已经拥有了一切)。

一旦我们开始意识到拥有足够的力量，我们就会离找到幸福的钥匙更近一步。

我家附近超市的收银员已经找到了那把钥匙。我们都在寻找的钥匙。