如果你女儿告诉你，她永远都不会要孩子，你会有什么反应？_风闻

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Nicole Smith

My daughter first told me this at around age 10. She’s 17 now and still feels the same way. I know there’s plenty of time for her to change her mind, but I don’t necessarily hope she does.

我闺女十岁左右第一次告诉我这个想法。她现在十七岁了，仍然有同样的感觉。我知道她有足够的时间改变主意，但我不一定希望她改变主意。 0

My precious girl is the type to avoid housework and cooking like it’s hazardous to her health and would eagerly accept being waited on hand-and-foot, but will spend hours on hair, clothing, and makeup daily. I suspect that this has more to do with her personality and interests than her age. Any man who marries her would already be fully aware that she’s a Princess Barbie, but if this continues, she could end up with a husband who has to take care of both my daughter and her child, which could lead to trouble at home.

我那宝贝闺女是那种绝不会做家务和饭的人，因为这对她的健康有害，但她渴望享受别人的伺候，每天她会花几个小时在头发、衣服和化妆品上。我怀疑这更多和她的个性和兴趣有关系，而不是她的年龄。任何娶她的男人都会充分意识到，她是一个芭比公主，但如果她这种情况持续下去，最后她的丈夫，将必须同时伺候我闺女和她的孩子，这可能会给家里带来不小的麻烦。 0

She cares deeply about people. She doesn’t dislike kids, she simply doesn’t want them at home. I worked in Child Development from the time I got pregnant with her until she went to high school. She was always present and interacted well with the other children. She was helpful and loving and all the parents loved her. 

她很关心人。她不讨厌孩子，她只是不想让小孩呆在自己家里。从我怀上她，到她上高中，我一直在儿童发展方面工作。她也总是在场，与其他孩子相处融洽。她乐于助人，充满爱心，所有的父母都爱她。 

Anonymous

My daughter did tell me that. She was ten. She is now 30. That’s her choice. She thinks on a higher level .its not my life its hers.

我女儿也这样告诉过我。当时她十岁，现在她三十岁了。那是她的选择。她想的层次更高一点。毕竟这不是我的生活，而是她的。 0

Melissa Ziggy

I was the daughter. By 10, I knew I didn’t want any. My brother was and still is indifferent and my sister absolutely loves them. I never shared that love, although I am fairly good with kids above the age of 4. Anything below, I absolutely hate babies. I don’t understand what makes them cute and desirable; they look like aliens to me.

我就是这种女儿。到了十岁，我就知道我不想要孩子。我哥哥过去和现在都对小孩漠不关心，但我妹妹非常喜欢小孩子。我从来没有过这种感觉，尽管我和四岁以上的孩子相处得很好。而且我非常讨厌婴儿，我不明白到底是什么让人们觉得他们很可爱，讨人喜欢，在我看来他们就像外星人。 0

I mentioned this to my mother when I was 10 in the middle of explaining how motherhood was part of being a woman. She laughed it off and told me I would change my mind. 6 years later, still didn’t change my mind and she insisted I would. Now at 28, I still don’t want any. My father completely understands, he would have been happy without kids too if that happened. My brother and I still don’t have children, and we’re extremely happy with our lives.

当我十岁的时候，我向我的母亲提到了这一点，当时她解释做母亲是女人生命的一部分。她一笑置之，告诉我将来要改变主意的。六年后，我仍然没有改变主意，她坚持要我改变主意。现在我二十八岁了，我还是不想要小孩。我父亲完全理解我，如果他当时没有生小孩的话，现在也会过的非常高兴。我姐姐正期待着第二次怀孕。我和弟弟还没有孩子，我们对自己的生活非常满意。 0

If your daughter is coming to her, accept it. No matter what age, do not tell her she will change her mind. Don’t make her promise at least one grandchild. Some people should not be parents at all, and everyone who is childless has their reasons. Me, I have my reasons, and I know I would not make a good parent. I am a good aunt, but that’s only because my niece is 6 now. My sister was not happy I refused to be near her, but she seems to have accepted that for her next.

如果你女儿不想要小孩，接受吧。不管多大年纪，别告诉她会改变主意。别让她答应至少给你生一个孙子。有些人根本就不应该做父母，每个没有孩子的人都有自己的理由。我，我有我的理由，我知道我不会成为一个好母亲。我是个好阿姨，但那只是因为我侄女现在六岁了。如果我拒绝和她在一起，我姐姐会不高兴，但她现在似乎已经接受了这一点。